Friday 5 August 2011

CONFIDENCE


At a party or get together or an office meeting, you are liable to meet new people and people you already know. Do you compare yourself with them in relation to your position or educational qualifications. Do you feel less important when you meet people who you 'think' are better than you in different ways. Well, everyone is unique and has their own positive qualities, quirks, accomplishments and drawbacks. In social or official situations when you are in the midst of a lot of people, you don't have to be scared or feel less important and shy away from communicating. There might be a lot of wonderful things unknown to others about you, maybe because you are a quiet person or an introvert. Communicate with clarity and express yourself with self confidence.  Maintain a positive air about yourself. Talking about yourself positively does not constitute to bragging. Your confidence will attract people and situations that work to your advantage.

Be inspired by a person or persons who are good in the same field you are in or interested in and observe how he or she does it. By watching and observing we can learn a lot on how to be successful at doing something and you can be confident about your new plan on how to execute it and be good at what you do and experience a new found confidence.

Are you concious of how you look, maybe your weight, your complexion, height or you feel you are not good looking when you compare yourself with others? Weight is something you can work on and reduce. Our complexion and how we look physically are a result of our genetic make up, which shouldn't be a matter of worry or concern. Eating right and some exercise can make us more fit and healthy which makes a difference in our appearance.  A confident and pleasant personality with character and integrity, makes a huge difference in how we feel and the effect we have on people around us.

Do you want to boost your confidence, well, I will share with you a few easy to follow confidence tips in my next blog!





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